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When the Guest Forgets the Door: Hospitality Betrayed by a Cult of Death

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  When is a guest due their goodbye? It often feels appropriate to ask. Generosity can dull our sense of discomfort when a visit lingers too long, and in opening our doors, we invite not only company but also the subtle risk that kindness may overextend itself. There comes a moment when hospitality begins to feel less gracious and more burdensome — and with it, a faint but growing anxiety.             It is only fair, then, to ask with sincerity: what are the true limits of hospitality? Across the nation, the rising tensions between herders and farmers have begun to erode the recognition of the householder’s rights. Those once welcomed in goodwill have turned hostile, abusing the very generosity extended to them. Nigeria, in general—and some states in particular—has become a theatre for a grim ritual: a cult of death. People who treat murder casually, even as a joke, now roam our streets armed and shielded by impunity. Communit...

I will belate my love ....................... (A Reflection on Valentine's Day)

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                                              We had the same nightly ritual that we do now. I’d read to the girls and tuck them in before my wife took over, and the last thing I’d say every night was “I love you,” and they would always reply promptly, “I love you too, Daddy.” But one night after my declaration, Fiona was silent. She just kept staring at the ceiling. “Do you love me too, Fiona?” I asked, foolishly . A long moment passed.  “No, Daddy, I don’t.” “Oh Fiona sweetie, I bet you do.” I said Nothing.   “Well,” I said finally, “I love you, Finn, and I’ll see you in the morning.” And then as I started to get up, I felt her small hand on my arm and she said dreamily, without looking at me, like a little Lauren Bacall, “I will love you in the summertime, Daddy. I will love you … in the summertime.” [1 ] There is something in the conversation between the poet ...

New poem: The Kiss of Wisdom (El beso de la sabiduría)

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El beso de la sabiduría Soy un filósofo errante, pobre en bienes, rico en anhelo, vagando en busca del fulgor de la sabiduría. Porque la sabiduría es el beso de los besos, un beso divino que guía mis pasos hacia la luz de un saber que transforma. Aplícate, aprovéchate de mi humilde pensamiento, pues la sabiduría no es saberlo todo, sino hallar el saber que cambia la vida. No tengo palabras perfectas para plasmar mi sentir, pero en mis versos dispersos he encendido un destello de la luz de mi pobre pensamiento. The Kiss of Wisdom I am a wandering philosopher, poor in possessions, rich in longing, roaming in search of the glow of wisdom. For wisdom is the kiss of all kisses, a divine kiss that guides my steps toward the light of a knowledge that transforms. Apply yourself, take advantage of my humble thought, for wisdom is not knowing everything, but finding the knowledge that changes life. I have no perfect words to express my feeling, but in my scattered verses, I have kindled a spark ...

UNABASHED HONESTY (The religious life risks becoming a theater of many masks but few genuine faces)

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      Lately, I have been turning over the concept of hypocrisy—a thorny and, it must be said, rather unfashionable subject. In particular, I’ve been pondering whether there might be space for what one might term a kind of “healthy hypocrisy.” Admittedly, this is an unlikely notion, and one that seems to teeter perilously close to oxymoron. Yet, in its more redeeming guise, could such a paradoxical posture allow for a certain moral pliancy, a flexibility that might avoid the brittle rigours of absolute consistency? It’s an unsettling thought, but perhaps worth exploring.      Who holds the moral authority to issue reproach? Let him who is without sin cast the first stone. My musings have been prompted, in part, by a return to Luigi Pirandello, particularly his exploration of masks and faces in the phenomenology of theatre. Of all his works, Uno, Nessuno e Centomila strikes me as especially apposite. “You will learn at your own expense,” Pirandello writes...

WHEN HOME FEELS FOREIGN: A VANISHING YESTERDAY....

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          Europe's borders are currently experiencing an unprecedented influx of migrants—individuals compelled by necessity to seek new opportunities. It is difficult not to feel sympathy for these men and women, to marvel at their extraordinary courage as they endure the relentless dust and scorching heat of the desert, only to face the unyielding hostility of the sea—a sea that rises against them with the fury of Poseidon himself. Their journey is one of unrelenting peril. The desert does not rest; the sea does not relent. For those who endure and arrive, integration often begins as a triumph. Yet there lingers an undercurrent of unease.      Recently, a growing chorus of anxious voices in the United Kingdom has lamented that their culture is slipping away. It is easy to understand the apprehension fuelling these anxieties. After all, the story of immigration has long been one of adaptation, of cultures fusing, blending, and at times, clas...

Poems

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  I hear you in faint whispers Trapped in a space of noise, yet, I hear you in faint whispers. Too many seductive voices, none of which are real— still, I find myself in your call. Should I go deaf to these piercing cries? Should I surrender to their summons? My ear’s filters grow weak, I pray you don't chastise me for yielding to their loudness. I will remain attentive, but I will not respond just yet, until I find the one true voice, the one that calls in whispers. Let me hear it once more, for I am made whole in your call.   In the Grip of a Sublime Smile She has a shy appearance, A calmness veils her, yet a fragile mirth lingers near. To hear her speak is to strain one's ear, Her beauty is a secret, softly whispered. Visible only in shadows, she moves with grace, Her aura, a gift divine, unmatched by mortal hands. The goddess of Olympus finds no place for her, For she surpasses their glory with effortless grace. The Theoi Agoraioi whispe...

Introducing My First Two Poems...

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                                            The Sigh that Beckons The clock plots its haste, as morning wanes into night, Like a child surrendering to the gentle pull of sleep. I sighed softly, fading into absence. As nocturnal birds whispered secrets to the dark, The sleeping soul bid its farewell to the waking, And in the quiet repose of my body, I drifted into dreams. Let me wake once more, to hold my dreams in memory, Lest I yearn only for sleep's tender embrace. In the quiet dawn's first light, the waking soul bade farewell to the sleeping, And in that fleeting instant, I sighed into presence.   Love is promised In your presence, I veil myself from your sight, Yet i linger, just beyond your reach. In your nearness, I find my distance, And wonder: how far must I journey to reach you? This path to you weighs heavy upon my feet, Yet in my distance...